Survey: Results part III

Why do you read my blog?

Heteroflexible male submissive, 36-45

Just in case my favourest kink of all were ever to come up. And also: because you make D/s feel not just hot, but poetically hot.

Now, I *know* what your favourite kink is, my dear friend (I am magic like that… ) and the likelihood that it is going to come up in a post is … errrmm… about 50-50. And thank you for … Continue Reading

Loves: 2
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Spiky shoes

Sometimes, they are just for fun…

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Loves: 3
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More submissive leanings

He was supposed to be on a conference call with me, we were doing a presentation to other senior North American colleagues. We had prepared for it over the past week, had done a run through the day before. I was doing the initial talking, and would hand over to him for his section. He was late, I had one of the men in the meeting give him a call… no answer. I started without … Continue Reading

Loves: 6
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A million words

The email is profoundly depressing, but it’s right. I wanted yearning and regret, I wanted tender words of lost love, I wanted support and hand holding, I wanted impossible things, I wanted all that. All that. And then more.

I asked him to write me something sweet to hang onto when we spoke last, but he hasn’t. I know he is writing for me a million words, he is writing for me for weeks and … Continue Reading

Loves: 3
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Survey: Results part II

I’ve been trying to figure out how to post the ‘free text’ parts of the survey. To me, they are the most interesting responses because you all got to say whatever you wanted, but obviously, there is no way to categorise them, nor do I want to try and fit them into little boxes.

So, I have decided to slip them in at random, little snippets of feedback drip-fed through the posts in no particular … Continue Reading

Loves: 1
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Submissive leanings

He is a work colleague: smart, driven, funny, engaging, good at his job. I like him and enjoy working with him. We talked all the time on the phone, but had never met because, well, he’s in North America and I am not.

We were on a call, I was carefully trying to explain something to him, he was distracted, obviously doing something else over there across the ocean. I got exasperated and snapped at … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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