Happy femdom stories – Stabbity

The wonderful Stabbity doesn’t technically consider her relationship femdom, but since there is no one definition and her story is full of the kind of sweetness that I love, I’d say it fits perfectly. Stabbity has also kindly volunteered to answer any questions you might have (thank you!), so ask away in comments if you are curious!

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Author: Stabbity

I met my ridiculously adorable boyfriend close to a year ago through my best friend weezie. The boy and I have been dating for about eight months now. I was a little bit leery about getting involved with someone who wasn’t necessarily kinky, but the boy was really awfully cute and we had plenty of common interests (read: we’re both huge nerds).

Not long after we started dating, I came down with a horrible cold. Normally I hate letting people come over when I’m sick and miserable, but the boy just sounded so sad that he couldn’t do anything to help that I eventually relented and let him bring me some apple juice and chicken soup. He arrived with both canned chicken soup and the powdered kind that you add boiling water to because he didn’t know which kind I liked. That turned out to be a recurring theme in our relationship, he’s always thinking about what I might want or need.

I’ve joked (well, half-joked) with friends that our relationship works because the boy is willing to put up with my personality flaws. When it comes right down to it, I like getting my way. I’m willing to compromise now and then, but I‘m just too selfish to do it all the time without getting resentful. The boy insists that it’s convenient to do what I want to do, and that doing things like pointing out where the nearest washroom is in the airport just before I ask if he saw a sign anywhere is just efficient, since he knows I’ll need to find one sooner or later anyway. I still think he puts a suspicious amount of effort into looking after me :)

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This post is part of a project to share happy, positive femdom relationship stories.  If you have a story and are willing to share it, please email it to me (ferns at domme-chronicles dot com).