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Reader Q&A: Books, punishment, & humiliation
Some of these have questions been languishing in my inbox for a while (sorry about that, lovely question-askers). I keep saying that I love getting ‘asks’ (I do!), but then I hoard them like a little treasure trove in my inbox. I have that dilemma of deciding when the ‘asks’ become weighty enough for a blog post, and then I forget to keep track of how many there are.
I should just stop thinking that … Continue Reading
On punishment
A reader question:
“In a recent thread on FetLife you mentioned that you use punishment as part of your dynamic, while both recognizing and agreeing with the reasons some do not.
How does punishment work in your relationships? Removal of privileges? Some kind of physical punishment? Something else entirely?”
I did mention that, yes. For the record, my comment is here (requires Fetlife login), and the pertinent paragraph was:
… Continue ReadingThose who don’t like punishment dynamics
Punishment software for BDSM
Ok, all submissives must now cover their eyes… go away now… go on… shoo!
Psssttt… Dommes… c’mere… Look, look what I found!!! *evil crafty grin*
Software to use for punishments:
Software that locks someone out of the internet for a certain amount of time.
… Continue ReadingYou set a time or a word count and the person has to keep typing until they are done, or the software sets off an annoying alarm,
Punishment
My D/s relationships include punishment. Not ‘funishment’ which is playing at punishment for fun (“Naughty boy!” *giggle* Thwak! etc), but punishment… a penalty for getting something wrong.
Punish
–verb (used with object)
- to subject to pain, loss, confinement, death, etc., as a penalty for some offense, transgression, or fault: to punish a criminal.
- to inflict a penalty for (an offense, fault, etc.): to punish theft.
Ok… not death, obviously (did that need saying? Of course … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #116 [Audio]
This fantastic femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:
- Post-punishment rituals
- Sweetness in my ‘Ask Me‘s! Thank you
- D/s Kissing 101, an impassioned primer
- Money is complicating my relationship: Halp!
- How many ‘great loves’ have you had?
- Can I maintain my masculinity and be submissive? (spoiler: YES!)
- And more!
The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and Spotify: Subscribe if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered straight … Continue Reading
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #114 [Audio]
This stupendous femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:
- The bits where I answer some questions about my masturbatory habits!
- Lovely sweetness from some listeners/readers <3
- Is this a scam? (if you’re asking this question, you already know the answer is ‘yes, yes it is’)
- Has a submissive ever introduced you to new kinks that you subsequently enjoyed?
- Should I ‘top from the bottom’ to solve this problem?
- How do I deal with power struggles in
Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #113 [Audio]
This fabulous femdom podcast includes the following:
- A big thank you to my Patreon supporters (because of course)
- A sweet little happy femdom story (yay!)
- Advice on getting into phone domming
- Resources for a new Domme (tip: My non-fiction book list)
- Should I consider a much older partner?
- Should I seek out a pro-Domme for this fantasy?
- How do I handle a serious issue with my long term dominant partner?
- What do you like