This femdom Q&A includes the following:

• Subs as footstools: What do you think?
• Is my dom mad? Why does he want this?
• How long can a man go without orgasms?
• Who was your favourite fictional teddy bear?
• Why not just choose a vanilla man?
• Busted at airport security!
• Public signalling of D/s tendencies
• “I’m a right wing arsehole and submissive, soooo…”
• How do I get my vanilla partner to be my dominant?
• And more!

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Welcome to another episode of ‘Ferns drinks champagne and talks…’ Topics include:

• Some personal questions (about fantasies, singledom & happiness)
• How to find a domme
• Tips on confidence for a newbie dominant
• Why some offers of ‘submission’ aren’t as appealing as you think they are
• Is this abuse?
• How to punish your submissive
• Sissies and cuckholding, a misunderstanding
• A porn reading
• And more!

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1. Those legs in the photo ARE mine, yes and… Continue Reading

This podcast Q&A includes the following:

• New books out soon! ‘Happy Femdom Stories Vol 2‘ & ‘Rage: A Femdom Story‘
• Using me as a hookup service (pro-tip: Don’t)
• New Domme: Halp!
• Submissive man introducing vanilla partner
• Can a Domme be an extrovert?
• Kneeling and knee strain
• When he wants more (and more and more…)
• Heathen chocolate?
• Cock sucking sub: yay or nay?
• Lesbian sub trying to find a Domme
• And more!

Welcome to my Reader Q&A. Enjoy!

• What questions to ask when D/s dating?
• My sub seemed not to respect, like, or care for me
• “I’m in love with my submissive, but…”
• Can there be love after harsh humiliation play?
• Online to real life transition when he seems perfect
• The ratio, you know, RATIO *sculls drink*
• Surprising little message from my ex-boy
• Sweetnesses, thank you!
• On forgiveness after fucking up and DFB
• And more!

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Welcome to another podcast. This Reader Q&A includes the following:

• How to find a dominant woman: (here you go!)
• I don’t trust him, what do I do?
• Sweetness & box girder bridges
• Mismatched communication styles
• Navigating new relationships
• Getting her from ‘indulging him’ to ‘taking the domme role’
• Dealing with subs who tell Dommes ‘how it should be’
• Does he have “too many hard limits”
• More ideas for punishments please
• And more!

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Welcome to a new femdom podcast (which I have arbitrarily numbered so that I can number them going forward and don’t have to keep thinking up original titles each time :P).

Topics include the following:

• Various sweetnesses (thank you!)
• How to start an online relationships initiated by a sub
• Concerns about particular fetishes (is it ok?)
• What do you think/like about collaring/collars/leashes/kneeling boys?
• Trying to find sexual chat online
• Figuring out if someone online is