Defensiveness and trust

There is a line between defensiveness and trust that oddly often feels ugly to me.

I don’t expect a stranger to trust me. That’s ludicrous. But I expect a potential partner to come to me with an open heart and willingness to speak to me without the expectation that I want to do him harm in some way.

I have spoken to some men who are constantly defensive about me ‘taking too much’ or ‘crossing … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – Gabriel

This is a really sweet story from a young submissive who I contacted because I admired one of his photos (see right) on Fetlife. Leather and steel cuffs

When I set up this new template, I asked him for permission to use it. He very kindly said yes, and you can see it cycle through as one of the photos that I show in my header.

I’m delighted that he has shared his story, which reads a little bit … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – amusoman

I’m delighted to have another happy femdom story to share! Yay!!

Amusoman emailed me out of the blue a looong time ago for a chat, and I recall getting quite stern with him about his lazy language and over-use of emoticons. I do believe he thought I was quite the bossy bitch (I know, hard to believe isn’t it?) and I’m happy to note that neither of those traits are in evidence in the lovely … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – Miss Eden

Another happy femdom story *happy dance*!

Miss Eden (a.k.a Phoray) is one of those young women who looks at her own life and circumstances, methodically works out who she is and what she wants, and then goes for it. She is one of the twenty-somethings that many of us who are older wish we had been. Enjoy!

Author: Miss Eden

Before coming into my own dominance, I dated vanilla from 16 to 23. As … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – Aaron

We haven’t had a happy femdom story for a while, so I was really excited when this one arrived in my inbox.

Youthful exploration and happiness, plus some really wonderful feedback for me on how my blog helped a little (I can’t tell you how delighted I am about that!). I don’t know that it can get any sweeter than this…

Author: Aaron

I wanted to say thank you for putting yourself out there. I … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – Beta Five

I cannot tell you how lovely it is for me when one of these stories lands in my inbox *happy sigh*. This one is incredibly sweet. Thank you Beta Five, and Miss Elisabeth, for sharing it. Enjoy!

Author: Beta Five

About two years ago, I discovered that I had an interest in BDSM. I had talked about the subject with an old friend from my hometown who is a pro Domme, and she suggested … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom stories – N

This arrived and made me happy the other morning. I was smiling even before I had had any coffee (no small feat). N said she had found the happy stories “lovely, inspiring, positive”, but was a little hesitant to send in her own story (I can completely understand that!). I am so glad and grateful that she did: it’s joyful and spirited and makes me think of the best of young love.

Author: N

My … Continue Reading

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