I spoke of vulnerability before… here it is:
I posted my secret here (yes, it’s old, you know, of course, that I will not reveal the difficult things until they are behind me…!).
… Continue ReadingI fucking miss you
A Domme’s vulnerability
After all the talk of the amazing openness and vulnerability that I wish for from my submissive, I’ve been considering posting something that shows me at my most vulnerable. It is scary, the showing, even though it doesn’t really matter because the actual terrifying part of doing it is already done, is over.
I rarely take emotional risks, and when I do, they are quiet risks, whispered into someone’s ear, tentatively put on the table … Continue Reading
Real Dommes don’t…
I am recycling my own words for this post. I do that you know, because I am lazy (if you had read my ‘About Me‘ secret confessions, you would know this already…).
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Stabbity wrote a great post here about how ‘real Dommes don’t have sex’, which prompted me to comment thusly:
You kind of touched on this, but didn’t QUITE hit it in the heart. Some Dommes fear losing control when they … Continue Reading
Hey, Sydney University… here it is, come get it!
I recently posted search terms that led people to my blog.
I didn’t mention that “Fetlife Sydney University” or some iteration of it was there a few times. I didn’t mention it because, well, it’s not funny, but I thought I would provide a community service announcement about it, to help those people out, so here it is.
Many people put some version of the following text on their Fetlife profiles:
… Continue ReadingWARNING: Sydney University
Google-fu failures
The following are my favourites of the recent searches that brought people to my blog:
- why are there a lot of femdom sites and no maledom [this one made me laugh because I imagine the searcher getting here and going ‘oh, for fuck’s sake, not ANOTHER one!?!!’]
- bdsm flesh hooks buy
- cock masturbate cum resist throb unnghh
- casual happy femdom
- gentle domme matronly
- spanking pyjama
- soap making bdsm what is
- ridiculous femdom look
- porn video
It’s all about me!
I finally put something more than ‘nothing’ in the About Me section here!
Because, you know, it’s all about me!
… Continue ReadingCapable, willing and eager
Peroxide asked some great questions in response to my post ‘Sometimes, angels sing where I talk about the incredible vulnerability that I seek from my submissive:
… Continue ReadingWe’ve all got walls (some of us more than others) that we put between ourselves and everybody else. How do you know that a sub is capable willing and eager to drop them?
And let’s just say hypothetically that there was a young man, who really wanted to be