My high level thoughts run crazy like this:

• *sigh* This is going to be idiotic.
• Everyone is so lovely!
• Emoting?! WTF?!
• Wow, she really is deluded.
• Awww, sweet…
• Show me your cock.
• Really? Interesting. Let me think about that.
• C’mere, meat, I want to try this on you.
• Oh my, you are lovely aren’t you?
• Gah! You don’t know *anything* so just shut the fuck up!
• Oh god, I am laughing my arse off here!

The results of the ‘Femdom in Second Life survey (oh goodie, a graph! You know how I love graphs!!) were surprising to me, with a pretty even spread:

I actually expected many more votes for ‘Not’ (shows what I know!). Thank you to all who participated and particularly for your comments.

For those of you who have never heard of this Second Life (SL) thing, it is a virtual world made up of themed areas … Continue Reading

I have a post brewing about this, but I thought I would stall on finishing it first ask you, trusted readers, to give me your opinion.

There are communities in Second Life dedicated to female domination. I would like to hear from you what your overall view of it is (in the broadest possible strokes!).

Hot: It’s great (for whatever reason)
Not: It’s stupid (for whatever reason)
WTF?: I have no idea what you are … Continue Reading

Not only am I ‘bubbly’ (allegedly!), I was told recently by someone who read some of this blog that (are you ready…?):

…i didnt get a sense you were a Domme…

*sigh*

I am such a failure…

Did I mention this was a guy from Second Life? No…? Well, see, now you can understand why I am so concerned.

Must. Do. Better.

N made a comment on this post about how they know when a dominant is able to bring out the sub in them, and asked me some really great questions about how I know when a submissive is right for me:

Can you describe what “it” is for you? Is it the openness? The willingness to give you what you want?

I have had a post brewing about something very close to this for a … Continue Reading

Once upon a time, a Domme logged into a kink site where she has an account and there was, as always, a boy’s profile on her screen, filtered by her criteria, they always pop up. She takes an idle look. He is funny, irreverent, not kink-focussed. It is exactly the kind of thing she likes. She smiles in amusement at his description and notes the name (for later reference, you know…).

A while later, she … Continue Reading