There are multiple reasons why I’m shit at casual. It’s not just one thing, but they all end up in the same shitpile.
I’m going to reiterate up-front that my inability to do casual is not the cougarling’s fault: He was, if anything, on the wrong side of my failed experiment, and that failure sits on my side.
The main issue is that I can’t work up passion for someone I’m not all that interested … Continue Reading
I just read a couple of tweets by Suzannah Weiss, a Teen Vogue writer (in case you aren’t aware, Teen Vogue has run more politically and socially enlightened articles than a lot of mainstream media in the last few years, so aren’t just ‘fashion and fluff for young girls’).
The tweets were essentially ‘Holy fuck men in society in general are selfish in bed!’
… Continue ReadingWhat if sex went like this: As "foreplay," a woman
Normal stuff, you know.
Cougarling
I’m trying to set up a time for the cougarling to come visit for a weekend: Kissing, touching, rope, all of that kind of thing. He’s moved since his ’24 hour drive’ type distance, but it’s still a long way, either a flight or a ton of driving. He suggested next weekend, but I already have (not-kinky) plans for the next two weekends, so then it’s getting into July.
Femdom … Continue Reading
My American boyfriend*, DualDrew, wrote an interesting piece about personal ads and dating profiles: Hope or Delusion? The Modern Kinky Personal Ad. Go read it.
My comment got too long over there, so I’m posting it here instead.
I’m going to take issue with the opinion Drew floated about hypocrisy and the idea that I have to BE what I want in order to be allowed to want it (i.e. I see no … Continue Reading
You know, sometimes I just want to see women kicking some arse and inviting priests into a threesome…
**Vikings spoilers and violence**
(also I could not find a way to stop this instagram video from auto-looping, click it again to stop it)
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When people say ‘fight like a girl’, I couldn’t agree more.
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What is a woman’s place in … Continue Reading
I HAVE MOVED MY TWEETERY TO A NEW ACCOUNT:
*** CLICK HERE TO (RE)FOLLOW ME: Ferns__ ***.
I’m following back and everything so come and clickety-click.
Note: Just to confuse you, yes, my twitter account name IS THE SAME AS BEFORE, but it IS a new account and you STILL have to re-follow me.
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Background story and bitchery: If you’ve been reading this blog (or other sex bloggers) over the past few months, … Continue Reading
My last submissive was long distance.
Our alternative for ‘I miss you’, which we said with increasing frequency and heart-aching sadness as time went on, was a whispered “When are you coming home?”
“When are you coming home?”
“Soon, baby, I’ll be home soon.”
I can’t quite remember if it came from this song which I adore, and which I had never heard before he sent it to me.
But today I listened to this … Continue Reading
