Original Question:
What do you say or do with your subs to nurture them, make them feel loved and supported?
My Response:
Kissing, always and more. Lots of physical contact, petting, I like to wrap myself around him, all legs and arms and skin contact. I whisper “Hello, beautiful” or some such to bring him to me, it is a checking in, an acknowledgement, a calling him home. Making him look me in the eye … Continue Reading
I post a lot on Fetlife discussion forums.
Occasionally I look at comments I have written and think “I should blog about that”, and I promptly forget about it file it away carefully. The ideas disappear into the ether because for it to be ‘a blog post’, I need to remember where the damn comment was, clean it up for ‘proper publication, put it in context, add enough personal bias to make it offensive, and … Continue Reading
Protection from what, you may well ask, and I am glad you did…
Submissives apparently need protection from the Big Bad Dommes (BBDs).
Really.
Why?
Because submissives allegedly can’t say ‘No thank you’ or ‘I’m not interested, strange shouty lady who is ordering me about’ or ‘Are you insane?!’ or ‘Piss off’ or anything of that ilk.
They need their Domme, or some other Domme (one who is *not* a BBD, natch) to filter their … Continue Reading
More from the survey results…… Really… I’m not close to done yet!
Why do you read my blog?
Straight female dominant, 36-45
much in common. And – you write beautifully.
Oh, you are me!!! And thank you for the compliment.
Queer Genderqueer. I present, and live, as female, though I also identify as a butch gay man. dominant, 18-35
I like reading the stories and experiences of other dominant women.
I’m glad you can … Continue Reading
Yes, I am totally still milking the survey results…
Why do you read my blog?
Queer female dominant, 18-35
I like having another dominant woman’s perspective on the whole D/s thing. Usually I come across submissive women, which are interesting to read, but I learn more about myself when I read other dominant women.
I am glad, and me too!
Straight female dominant, 18-35
… Continue ReadingBecause reading a blog written by an actual dominant woman makes
More comments from the survey… If you think I might be close to the end, I’m not! I just hope my roman numerology can keep up…
Why do you read my blog?
Straight male submissive, 36-45
… Continue ReadingI love wit. Our world is bland and literal. You make me think and laugh with your wit. Plus the intensity, I can hear the panting (you rarely hear that), but it’s hard to tell whether it was you
More comments from the survey…
Why do you read my blog?
Straight male submissive, 18-35
well, the subject matter is interesting of course, but mostly i am impressed with your honesty and writing ability. there is something so great about writing that comes from passion, it has a beauty to it that can’t be faked. so, i read it as a submissive and i read it as a lover of good prose.
*smile* Thank you… … Continue Reading