A reader question:
“In a recent thread on FetLife you mentioned that you use punishment as part of your dynamic, while both recognizing and agreeing with the reasons some do not.
How does punishment work in your relationships? Removal of privileges? Some kind of physical punishment? Something else entirely?”
I did mention that, yes. For the record, my comment is here (requires Fetlife login), and the pertinent paragraph was:
… Continue ReadingThose who don’t like punishment dynamics
Random stuff, no context…
…”all the best with all the oral sex you are going to be having…” and now I feel super creepy and weird…
Yes, I AM too stupid to use sex toys, it’s TRUE!
…people talking to my ass is just uncomfortable for everyone concerned…
Well, okay, fine. I suction-cupped a dildo to the fridge. Doesn’t everyone do that?
“If only you’d done your kegel exercises, flabby-vagina bitches!”
… Continue ReadingQUOTES DO NOT DIFFERENTIATE
So what are you like when you are not writing this wonderful blog ? Are you happy and chirpy ? Are you quiet and stern ? Do you have a coy smile ? Are you naughty ? Do you pull pranks on your friends ? *writes a hundred more such questions*
*laugh* Cute questions, but of course, the ‘what are you like’ one is unanswerable in any definitive way.
Are you happy and chirpy ?… Continue Reading
You look at me, both guilty and defiant.
I hold your gaze. I wait.
You are hurt and angry. You lift your chin. I know that look. You are considering your options. They are running through your mind like quicksilver, fast and light and slippery.
I don’t look away. I just wait while you run through the possible reactions in your head.
Your breathing is shallow while you fight for composure.
I can feel your … Continue Reading
There is a lightness, a quickening, a wonderful buzzing that even small crush connections can bring.
I love them even if they are short-lived, a fleeting moment that flares, then disappears as quickly as it started. And most of them are just that: a flurry of interest that hits a peak and then fades quietly away.
That doesn’t diminish the pleasure I get from them. They wake up my synapses in delightful ways, stirring up … Continue Reading
[The following email was in response to my personal ad on a site that allows you to choose your kinks from drop down lists. I did not choose any.]
From: 23yo_femdom_who_I_don’t_know:
“I would have thought ‘having your shit together’ – on your part – included being capable of listing your kinks.”
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Hello 23yo_femdom_who_I_don’t_know,
I think you are confusing ‘being capable of’ with ‘wanting to’. Easy mistake to make if you aren’t all that bright.… Continue Reading
I said in my last:
I *really* wish that I enjoyed casual playthings because I think that would open up some very interesting opportunities…
I’m defining a ‘casual plaything’ as a boy who is attractive, fun, appealing, and temporary. Someone with whom a long term relationship isn’t possible for whatever reason, a short term fling who I would primarily treat like a treasured toy for a time.
Sounds great, right?
But it’s not. I … Continue Reading