Reader QnA: Would you date a 24yo?

I love reading your play stories, although sometimes I think the level of violence would overwhelm me in reality. I’ve been boxing and fighting since I was young, but I don’t know how I could handle real pain in a sexual context.

Love your commitment to fitness and the whole “mens sano in corpore sano” thing. I think I’m young for you but – would you ever consider a 24 year old?

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Personal ad outcome

Thanks to my personal ad, I have found the most fabulously amazing submissive man who fits me just right, and we are going to live happily ever after!!!

Woot!!












*sigh*

Okay, not really.

Here’s the results, in interpretive dance…

*does weird flaily dancey thing, fast-slow-happy-sad-flowy-jerky-awkward, ends up curled in the corner rocking back and forth…*





Oh, and here it is in graph-porn form:

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And finishing in song:

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Because she would ask me why I loved her: Audio

For Mystic: Her favourite poem.

Because she would ask me why I loved her
by Christopher Brennan (1870-1932)

If questioning would make us wise
No eyes would ever gaze in eyes;
If all our tale were told in speech
No mouths would wander each to each.

Were spirits free from mortal mesh
And love not bound in hearts of flesh
No aching breasts would yearn to meet
And find their ecstasy complete.

For who … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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e[lust] #50

I’m delighted to be the reader’s choice in this month’s elust with ‘First lesbian love‘. Yay!

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #51? Start with the newly updated rules, come back October 1st … Continue Reading

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Back shot

Do you know how hard it is to show off back muscles? Yeah, really hard.

Still, I managed it by pretending to do lat pullups on some outdoor equipment in the park.

So, RAAWWWRRRR!!!… Continue Reading

Loves: 31
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Reader Q&A: G-spot orgasms & sweetness

A while ago you posted on your experience trying a G-Spot orgasm. And it sounded like you enjoyed it a lot and wanted to explore some more. Have you? Has it become a regular part of your routine?

I did!! And I do want to explore some more. But fuck, I’m a lazy wanker. Literally. I just want to get off and go.

It’s on my to-do list:

“Wank more and better.”

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Crowdsourcing my book title

I’m kind of stuck and could use some creative help.

Like every other blogger in the entire world who fancies themselves a writerly type (i.e. all of us!), I’m putting together a book.

It’s an erotica anthology comprised of true-life vignettes about female dominant/male submissive play: passion, violence, sweetness, affection, love.

If you’re familiar with the way I write, you will know exactly the sort of thing I mean (if not, here’s an example: Good Continue Reading

Loves: 7
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