I have a bad memory. Truly terrible. I actually think it contributes to my introversion because it means I run into awkward social problems:
“Oh, we’ve met before? Several times? Of course we have…”
“Meet… um… [blank]??”
“We saw that movie together? Did I like it?”
Then the non-trivial which is hundred-fold worse:
“Oh, you already told me your sister had cancer… :((” *wishes the ground would open up and swallow me whole*
At … Continue Reading
I want to say up-front that I love newbie submissives, I do. They’re so shiny :). My last submissive was a newbie and he was utter perfection.
But (you knew there was a ‘but’ coming, right? :P) I don’t have the patience or interest for those whose emotional intelligence doesn’t extend to believing in my humanity. That is *not* a situation I’m going to put myself in, fighting to be seen as human, and if … Continue Reading
Speaking of newbies, I’m raising this femdom dating story that has been languishing in my drafts since last year. It’s lingered there un-posted because I couldn’t tease anything worthwhile out of it, but look, when I’m trying to post every damn day in June, you get what you get :P.
I found a self-identified submissive man on a vanilla dating site and messaged him. SCORE!
Or, you know, not.
He was cute, articulate, seemed … Continue Reading
This is pure unadulterated ego, but I STILL think it’s true:
A bummer with newbie submissive men I get involved with is that they won’t know how amazing I really am until they get some experience with others. Until then, they more or less think all Dommes are like me, probably better, because ‘internet’ :P.
But if am interested in them, if I’m with them, there’s something special there. Something unlike anything they are going … Continue Reading
This love story started on Fetlife many years ago, and is still going strong <3.
Enjoy little slice of this happiness.
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Author: Peter
I can still read on Fetlife the first message I sent her, almost exactly nine years ago.
I had started exploring about two years earlier, newly divorced at 47; meeting people for casual play, driving all over the southeast, going to play parties or sessions in Atlanta about once a month.
Four … Continue Reading
Yes, of course introvert Dommes are a thing!
Also shy Dommes, socially awkward Dommes, anxious Dommes, quiet Dommes, depressed Dommes etc. Wanting a D/s relationship isn’t contingent on being a certain type of person. On either side of the slash.
I am introverted, very.
I think people often use ‘introverted’ when they mean some of the things I mentioned above.
But that’s not what I mean by ‘introverted’.
For me, I’m talking more of a … Continue Reading
What’s the collective noun for a relentless bunch of femdom blog posts in a row?
I settled on ‘a braingasm’, but maybe ‘an insult’, ‘an authority’, ‘an order’, ‘a shitstorm’, ‘a salubriosity’ (is SO a word!)?
Anyway, I’M DOING IT THIS MONTH.
The fabulous Hyacinth over at A Dissolute Life Means is running an #EveryDamnDayInJune blogging meme, which she does every year and which I’ve never joined. You can find links to folks who are … Continue Reading
