Responding to emails – the other side

We hear submissive men say fairly frequently that dominant women do not respond to their emails, or ‘disappear’ after a few back and forths (I put ‘disappear’ in quotes because all it really means is that they stopped responding).

I just want to point out, for the record, that quite often submissive men do not respond to emails that I send them either, or sometimes they simply stop replying when we have some sort of … Continue Reading

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Are you ready yet?

Yes, yes I am…

Fucking LOVE!!… Continue Reading

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My sent emails XXVIII

Hello e,

You are exemplary with the one line hotness… Sometimes, my eyes read something and it goes straight to my cunt.

I was going to make lunch, masturbated instead.

You featured heavily.

Ferns… Continue Reading

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Emperor’s new clothes

I’m not naked! I have a new outfit on… see, see?!

It is home made, and constructed out of tissue paper and crimpolene, and scares the hell out of me.

I moved the blog when you weren’t looking, with the long suffering help of the wonderfully smart PhoenixFox on Fetlife who kindly volunteered to interpret my blatherings and sort me out (a million more thank yous!!).  PhoenixFox runs a business doing this sort of thing, … Continue Reading

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Shhh… no telling

I am a little cautious about cautiously mentioning in a tentatively cautious way that the ‘interesting man who I am enchanting’ mentioned here (that was his description, by the way, after noting that he had been referred to as ‘someone’) is turning out to be quite the thing.

It is a little dangerous to poke a stick at it here when it is such early days and may yet peter out, but it is hugely … Continue Reading

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My sent emails XXVII

22 year old male submissive in San Francisco:

it may be an unconventional request but, how much for a kick in the balls?

Me:

Let’s see now… airfare, accommodation, time lost at work, inconvenience, cost of vacation time taken, compensation for the insult of being treated like a sex worker and finally the kick itself…

I’d say *puts pinky finger to bottom lip* A MILLION DOLLARS!!

Money first thanks, I mean that’s just good business.… Continue Reading

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Starting the day – part I

You keep checking to see if I am awake, quietly sneaking a look, and when I open my eyes sleepily, you are allowed to kiss me on skin that is exposed, bare above the sheet.

The kissing is both greeting and a gentle feeling out of my mood. Sometimes I barely acknowledge you, sometimes I purr and arch into your kisses exposing maybe my neck, my ear to you, sometimes I pull the sheet down … Continue Reading

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