How do you feel when you play?

A new dominant woman asked this of more experienced women in a discussion forum: “How do you feel?” She meant ‘when you play’, and it’s a great question that I’m not sure gets explored all that much from the dominant side.

She wrote:
So far, I don’t think I’m getting it… the thing that befuddles me the most, is how am I supposed to feel? Is there a way you should feel about this? Or Continue Reading

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This, that, and that other thing

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This is one of those posts.

Long time readers know the ones.

Where I haven’t written for a while, where I’m not having any thoughts really worth writing about, but I still want to write something or I fear I will come back to find an age has passed and my last post was in 1952.

When I get this way I do a general update, a bit of a ‘what’s going on over here’ … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom story: D&S Part 2, S’ side

I shared D’s side of D&S’ happy femdom story already.

This is Part 2: Her side.

S talks about how she felt when her husband, D, told her about his desires, and what happened next.

Huge thanks to both D and S for so generously sharing their story.
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Author: S

I remember the day over five years ago that D told me about his long-suppressed interest in submission, kink and D/s. We had been … Continue Reading

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Happy femdom story: D&S Part 1, D’s side

This happy femdom story starts with a scenario that may sound familiar to some of you: A good long term marriage where the husband has some submissive desires. He finally gathers the courage to tell his wife, and hopes for the best. This is about how that unfolds and what happened next.

This story is in two parts, and I’m absolutely delighted to be able to share both.
Part 1 is his side (he’s D), … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #126

Welcome to Elust 126

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Femdom for bushfire relief: Final tally

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My ‘Femdom for bushfire relief‘ ran for 7 days last week.

I’ve started writing this update a couple of times, and I swear my emotions are living right on the surface right now. I don’t know why they insist on sitting there, but there they are. Everything to do with what is going on here with the bushfires makes me cry.

The bad makes me cry because it’s horrific and frightening and rage-making … Continue Reading

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Femdom for bushfire relief

Child in boat in Mallacoota

UPDATE 11 jAN: This fundraising campaign is now over. Thank you all so very much for your support, your donations, and for your enormous generosity. The final tally is here!


The bushfires here are not near me. I’m safe, my family and friends are safe. We’re lucky.

The closest fires were more than 50kms away from my home, and the only effects I experienced while people were losing their homes was a smoke haze … Continue Reading

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