By Oglaf.
See how helpful I am?
… Continue ReadingVanilla submissive vs D/s submissive
I wrote this post earlier about how some people call lovely, attentive, considerate behaviour from a man ‘submissive’ instead of thinking of it simply as the behaviour of a fabulous man in love.
I coined the term ‘vanilla submissive’ to refer to vanilla men I have been with whose behaviour is pretty much exactly what I expect from my submissive. Only, they weren’t my submissive.
The comments on my previous post were lively and quite … Continue Reading
User names and you…
User names are like a signature on the internet or in the community. I figure if you chose it, you did so to specifically and unequivocally communicate something about yourself.
That being the case, many are a complete turn off for me.
If a submale has a user name that communicates an icky message, he is going to have to work *extra* hard to make me believe he’s actually an intelligent, thinking human being.
I … Continue Reading
My sent emails XXV
Hello subsomebody,
Four words with no capitalisation, no punctuation, and an inability to spell the word ‘you’. The laziness and lack of care hurts my brain.
Ferns
… Continue ReadingFuck yeah!
I save D/s images that I find and fall a little in love with… Mostly the ones I love are terribly romantic, and I don’t normally share them, but this one was so perfectly lovely that I couldn’t resist going “Look… LOOK!!!”
I found it on the fabulous Fuck Yeah Male Submission!tumblr.
… Continue ReadingScammers come in different flavours
So you got contacted by an uber hottie… whoo hoo!! She’s from your home town and she is super keen on you and thinks you are special… that’s so awesome!! She wants to claim you as her slave… yesss!!! You’ve been talking for a couple of weeks… it’s going great! She seems to be moving really fast, but ok, that’s fine… good even! And she hasn’t asked you for money so SHUT UP FERNS!!
There … Continue Reading
On frantic writing
“Giving yourself permission to write horribly is a really liberating process.”
– Chris Baty (founder of NaNoWriMo)
With that in mind, I am taking part in National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) in November, along with *every other blogger in the world who thinks they have a novel in them* (that’s ALL of us, you realise that, right?).
The objective of NaNo (see, how I am shortening it, like I am one of the cool kids?!) … Continue Reading