Étienne is the most lovely man. I always think of him as a calm and zen-like presence who brings thought, experience and gentle reason to many discussions both here on my blog and on Fetlife. I am delighted that he chose to share his story. Thank you, Étienne.
Author: Étienne
I was just getting out of a horrible, abusive relationship with an unbalanced dominant woman. A year of therapy had taught me a lot about … Continue Reading
I recently got my first hemp rope… I tried to find beautiful foot ties (with instructions!) to play with some self bondage, but couldn’t find any.
So I improvised.
It feels lovely against the skin, it smells like country hay, and it leaves quite sweet marks.… Continue Reading
Sonnet XI
I crave your mouth, your voice, your hair.
Silent and starving, I prowl through the streets.
Bread does not nourish me, dawn disrupts me, all day
I hunt for the liquid measure of your steps.
I hunger for your sleek laugh,
your hands the color of a savage harvest,
hunger for the pale stones of your fingernails,
I want to eat your skin like a whole almond.
I want to eat the sunbeam … Continue Reading
Contrary to Tom’s spurious claims, he fits in here nicely (‘here’ being not only ‘in the world’ in a general sense, but ‘here’ in the ‘happy femdom stories’ sense and most assuredly ‘here’ in the ‘I have loved your blog for a long time, Tom, and am always delighted to read your thoughts even though you are a cheeky buggar who somehow thinks that virtually refusing to be my designated driver means something, and we’ll … Continue Reading
More belated free text survey answers to the ego driven question:
Why do you read my blog?
Heteroflexible Female Dominant, 36-45
you write very well
*big smile* Thank you, I’m glad you enjoy it!
Bisexual Female Dominant, 18-35
I love the way you write!
And I love it when people love the way I write… win-win!! Yay!
Male Submissive, 56-65
… Continue ReadingCuz you have the forced link in every message [on Fetlife] and it is really
Wow, it’s really not like me to forget fun things like publishing self serving survey results! But I did, I forgot!! I blame hormones, or the move, or all the wild sex I’ve been having… *sigh*… ok, maybe not the latter…
Some more free form text answers to my survey from waaaay back when below:
Q: Why do you read my blog?
Queer Female Switch, 18-35
… Continue ReadingI’ve had submissives of mine write journal entries
Shhhh… An anonymous contributor snuck in with this most wonderful story. Thank you, dear anonymous!
Author: Anonymous
When I was 24 I met a very cute and shy little man. A gentle soul who was willing to talk about whatever I wanted and listened to whatever I said. I was a confirmed lesbian at the time, and in a relationship, so, of course I was only interested in friendship with him. He didn’t seem to … Continue Reading