I spoke of vulnerability before… here it is:
I posted my secret here (yes, it’s old, you know, of course, that I will not reveal the difficult things until they are behind me…!).
… Continue ReadingI fucking miss you
My sent emails XXII
Normally, the sent email is enough to tell the story, but this is one where I have to include the emails that arrived in my inbox for context…
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5:51 PM
Hi Ferns. We chatted a while back. Still keen to serve. RealName (PlaceOfEmployment)
… Continue Reading[I vaguely remember him, mainly because he is local and gave me his real name and employment credentials within a few emails last time. I recall patiently telling him to treat
Another drink?
I glance sideways at you, catch your eye. You are watching me. I know that look, it says “Here I am, Ma’am…”, it invites and challenges me, it waits.
I smirk at you, watch you blush. I know you want to look away now that you have caught my attention. Now that you have what you want you aren’t quite sure what to do with it.
I turn to face you and you hold your … Continue Reading
Survey 2011 Results part IV
Ha! You didn’t think I was done milking sharing the survey results, did you? Now comes a million posts with the free form text answers…
Why do you read my blog?
bi-curious (i.e. straight, never tried the other thang) Male, Unsure, 46-55
… Continue Readingyou shut down a mind fuck ijnquiry thread on fetlife, that i wanted to contribute to. i think you were wrong. she asked for examples of mindfucks, and she got stomped as a
A Domme’s vulnerability
After all the talk of the amazing openness and vulnerability that I wish for from my submissive, I’ve been considering posting something that shows me at my most vulnerable. It is scary, the showing, even though it doesn’t really matter because the actual terrifying part of doing it is already done, is over.
I rarely take emotional risks, and when I do, they are quiet risks, whispered into someone’s ear, tentatively put on the table … Continue Reading
Real Dommes don’t…
I am recycling my own words for this post. I do that you know, because I am lazy (if you had read my ‘About Me‘ secret confessions, you would know this already…).
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Stabbity wrote a great post here about how ‘real Dommes don’t have sex’, which prompted me to comment thusly:
You kind of touched on this, but didn’t QUITE hit it in the heart. Some Dommes fear losing control when they … Continue Reading
Hey, Sydney University… here it is, come get it!
I recently posted search terms that led people to my blog.
I didn’t mention that “Fetlife Sydney University” or some iteration of it was there a few times. I didn’t mention it because, well, it’s not funny, but I thought I would provide a community service announcement about it, to help those people out, so here it is.
Many people put some version of the following text on their Fetlife profiles:
… Continue ReadingWARNING: Sydney University