What interests you with your submissive?
I get this question quite a lot. It’s a reasonable one.
The first thing is that I don’t care about ‘what he will do for me’. Can he cook, can he wield a power drill, can he build things, can he give me a pedicure? Don’t care. It’s stupid. Those are useful skills of course, but in the scheme of things they aren’t partner-makers. And any smart person can … Continue Reading
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That is all.
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* Found this in my drafts, there is a LOT of stuff in there…… Continue Reading
Random things I’ve said recently, no context.
Is that a ‘yes, I have no intention of meeting you’ salmon? If so you might have to specify: salmon species are not my forte
I think ‘vanilla’ = did not buy dedicated equipment for that :P
And here we have a vintage little number all about self-created snowballs.
… Continue Reading“I wanked over a picture of you, THAT’S how sexy I think you are” is not the compliment those
I’m going to a BDSM event next week.
To be clear, I never go to BDSM events.
I think the last time I went to a BDSM club was Paddles in New York, and that was a gazillion years ago.
But I had a very uncharacteristic bout of social energy last month, so here we are.
I had to dig around to find my corsets since that’s about it for fetish gear I own … Continue Reading
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
— Maya Angelou
This is a timeless quote. I wholeheartedly believe in it.
I sometimes have interactions with potential partners, submissive men, natch, who do something egregious early on in our correspondence.
And that’s it, I’m out.
I know it sounds harsh, and it is.
If someone lies to me, is disrespectful, is mean, ignores my boundaries, expresses some offensive view, is shitty … Continue Reading
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Need a reason to buy my Domme Chronicles book of femdom erotica (other than ‘it’s less than half price, and I told you to’ I mean)?
Read this heartbreakingly lovely email that landed in my inbox <3. Then go get it.
Hi Ferns,
I wanted to pass along my deep appreciation to you for the Domme Chronicles book. It’s beautiful. Each short excerpt is like a love letter to that moment, frozen in time. Some of them are so … Continue Reading
