My sent emails LII

Hello Scandinavian_fellow,
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Thank you for your email. You are in Norway, so I doubt you will be able to offer me anything that I want.

Feel free to contact me again when you have moved to Australia and are within reasonable travelling distance to actually have a relationship.

You said: “i’ll attach a picture so You see who i am.”

That is a photo of Stilrobin Fröström, and I don’t for a second believe that’s … Continue Reading

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Sex as a reward

In F/m, using sex as a reward seems to be a thing. Where the sub’s good behaviour earns sex.

If folks enjoy it, great. But to me it’s the grossest thing.

On all levels.

In my mind, it leads to scenarios like this:

  • Ugh I don’t feel like having sex but he’s ‘earned’ it so I suppose I have to now
  • I feel like having sex but he was ‘naughty’ yesterday, so I guess I
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Meeting a sub… or not

I mentioned in this post that I’d set up a time for drinks with a lovely young submissive who wrote me a stellar introductory email and with whom I’ve been emailing since.

The meeting was today in fact (wow, writing every day really does make this all a bit ‘real-time’ doesn’t it?).

He’d read a lot of my content, done his research, even found my personal ad and said he met all the criteria in … Continue Reading

Loves: 27
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Fear of flying

I don’t have a fear of flying. I have a fear of failure.

My fear of failure is so great that I couldn’t bear to put the word ‘failure’ in the title. Telling, no?

I genuinely believe that this fear impacts a lot of aspects of my life. Both in my past and in the present.

I am envious of those who have that fear, but try to fly anyway. Madly flapping their arms and … Continue Reading

Loves: 21
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Concern vs infantilization

It’s great to be concerned about people, to care, to worry if you think they are doing something that’s bad for them. Of course.

But in the D/s domain, I see a lot of concern-trolling from dominants towards submissives who they don’t even know, and the underlying thought process is a patronising level of ‘poor little ones don’t know what they’re doing, they’re only subs after all, I shall gift them with my superior knowledge’, … Continue Reading

Loves: 15
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Sexy audio porn: A literary reading

Twitter as literary source? You betcha!

Author: @Party_Harderson
Story thread: Excerpt from the sexy kinky book…

*takes a bow*

You’re welcome :D.… Continue Reading

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Domme Chronicles book: On sale for a limited time

Domme Chronicles: Tales of love, passion & domination, my book of femdom erotica vignettes, is LESS THAN HALF PRICE on Amazon for a limited time.

It’s definitely not a Valentine’s day sale, though it is on special until the 14th. This is an utter coincidence!

Normally $6.99, currently $2.99.


Here’s what people said about it in their 5 star reviews:

— “Both fierce & touching, playful one moment & violent the next”

— “This

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