I’ve been chicken-littling over collarspace.com for a while now.
I know a lot of people hate the site, but I’ve met lovely submissive men there (I found sunshine on collarspace), and it’s still the biggest BDSM dating site despite all of its faults. And make no mistake, when it comes to dating, size matters :P.
Original post date, May 20th 2018:
I think it’s in trouble.
It has always suffered from some level of flakiness … Continue Reading
Welcome to another podcast. This Reader Q&A includes the following:
The … Continue Reading
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If you are involved in writing romance books (and you probably aren’t) or read them (maybe you do) or if you read books at all (have I got you all now?), then #cockygate might be of interest to you.
If you’ve not heard a thing about it, sit back and let me wave the drama around.
Romance author Faleena Hopkins got a trademark on the word ‘cocky’ (yes, on the word itself) for “a series … Continue Reading
My American boyfriend*, DualDrew, wrote an interesting piece about personal ads and dating profiles: Hope or Delusion? The Modern Kinky Personal Ad. Go read it.
My comment got too long over there, so I’m posting it here instead.
I’m going to take issue with the opinion Drew floated about hypocrisy and the idea that I have to BE what I want in order to be allowed to want it (i.e. I see no … Continue Reading
Remember the cougarling?
6’3 of pretty, I contacted him on Fetlife, he drove 24 hours a couple of times to come and spend time with me… Yes, him.
We’ve kept in sporadic touch over the last two years. Friendly emails on and off (mostly off).
In my last message of note to him, I said this:
“You are most welcome in my lair, in my rope, and in my bed”
It’s rare that I … Continue Reading
You know, sometimes I just want to see women kicking some arse and inviting priests into a threesome…
**Vikings spoilers and violence**
(also I could not find a way to stop this instagram video from auto-looping, click it again to stop it)
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When people say ‘fight like a girl’, I couldn’t agree more.
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What is a woman’s place in … Continue Reading
'cougarling' by Ferns