One week, two boys

I know you want to hear all about my date, but I’m not ready to talk about that until I have more solid ground to stand on. Suffice it to say he’s really cute, smart and interesting, and he has a lot of other stellar qualities besides: I like him.

There might have been a little kissing… Yum…

Anyway where was I?

Oh yeah, and he brought me Milo: what’s not to like?

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Loves: 10
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Today would be a really good day for some CFNM

As part of our NaBloRrrrawrMo pact during November, the fabulous Submissive Guy Comics is drawing comics inspired by tweets that caught his eye and I’m sharing them here.

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Soooo…

I have a date.

Shocker, right?

Lunch.

With this lovely submissive man who I’ve dubbed the Pilot (because he is, among other things, a pilot).

I don’t normally write about potential submissives here because I think it puts too much pressure on, well, everything.

In fact I normally don’t mention anyone here until they feel tangible, until I know I like them, until we have had a couple of months of promising contact at least.… Continue Reading

Loves: 8
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My sent emails XLVIII

To: dom-who-decided-to-be-an-online-sub

Hello there,

I was going to leave this unanswered because you are right, I’m not interested, but you seem genuinely perplexed at my response, so in the interests of ‘random acts of education’, I thought I would try and help.

I’m going to keep this short since you will either find it useful or think I am an interfering bint who should piss off, and I don’t want to waste either of our … Continue Reading

Loves: 7
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Manage your own shit

If a submissive contacts me with a friendly email and it’s clear (or becomes clear) that they are partnered, I don’t go and ask their dominant if it’s okay that we interact (not flirting, not arranging a hookup, just having friendly conversation). I assume that we are all adults and they can make their own decisions. It’s not my job to police other people’s relationships.

So if I’m corresponding with a submissive and I get … Continue Reading

Loves: 9
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Sugar cravings are vicious!

As part of our NaBloRrrrawrMo pact during November, the fabulous Submissive Guy Comics is drawing comics inspired by tweets that caught his eye and I’ll be sharing them here. Lucky us :).

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How to make Milo

This is a Very Important Topic*.

Milo is a chocolate malt drink that is a staple in Australia, right up there with Vegemite. The value of Milo (vs other chocolate milk additives) is that it’s crunchy, so when you have it, you have to embrace the crunchiness of it and not waste it.

There is much debate about the best way to have Milo, and in the interests of world wide education, I have produced … Continue Reading

Loves: 8
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