This is my response in a discussion on fetlife.com about whether women come into their dominance later than men, and if so, why that might be. It explains from my personal perspective how I struggled some with getting what I wanted when I was young, so I thought it worth posting here.
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From my perspective as a young woman out in the world, I was never free to exercise any sexual initiative in the … Continue Reading
In my personal ad, I describe myself as “difficult’ (among other things). This is not a cute way of pretending I am some badass bitch. I’m not.
But boy, am I particular.
And in the context of getting to know someone, there seems to be a very narrow set of things that ‘work’ for me.
There are some things that hit me just right, that make me laugh out loud, that make me do … Continue Reading
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I cannot explain how amazing it feels to get a positive review of my book, and when it’s so beautifully written, I get all a-swoon. It is seriously happy making! *happy sighs*
This one is on Amazon.co.uk (reviews on other country’s Amazon sites do not show up on Amazon.com… boo!).
Edited To Add: If you usually use a different country’s amazon site, you can STILL log into amazon.com with your existing details to leave a … Continue Reading
At the beginning of the week, each of the Ferns workout crew members made a commitment to do a certain number of workouts for the week.
Let’s see how see all went against our goals shall we? *puts on glasses, gets out evaluation sheets*
Ferns – 3
DONE! Not my best work with rather light weights and low intensity, but I have a lovely muscle soreness going on, and I went, so a total win!… Continue Reading
The OKCupid version (yes, I joined a vanilla dating site: more on this later!).
These are random emails I have sent out to men whose profiles I liked (as opposed to replies to emails that landed in my inbox).
To be clear, the first three were not potential matches: I just like to send out compliments to people when I see something interesting. It’s fun to say sweet things to people. It’s also stress free … Continue Reading
I make no secret of the fact that I love the pretty.
It’s true. I do.
And I know that I might give the impression that I have a very narrow definition of what that means.
But that’s not true.
Objectively, I have a body type that I like on a man. For sure. It’s tall, V-shaped, with lean muscle (not bulky), an adonis belt, a six pack, veins that stand out, narrow waist, wide … Continue Reading