Sharyn Ferns: Femdom Books

– HOW TO HANDLE DISOBEDIENCE –

This book was so useful in my relationship. My sub thought it was fun to brat and he wouldn’t listen to me. I was frustrated and just about ready to give up.

Your book gave me some great background and simple steps to fix it. It worked. We’re so much happier now.

Thanks!

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

I found it super helpful! Altho I already had several scenes I still tend to get nervous when playing with new people, but I’m prepared now :D.

– HOW TO HANDLE DISOBEDIENCE –

Read it last night and it’s such a fabulous, insightful, witty and relevant read!

This is damn good advice!

– HAPPY FEMDOM STORIES –

Its great to see a book like this. Stories from both the strong women and the men who love and serve them, not as a fetish, but as people talking about how their relationships started, developed, and in some cases, ended.

The storytellers show people living their lives according to their rules: Its an important book to help people see what Femdom and FLR truly are.

– DOMME CHRONICLES –

This is the story of an authentic D/s relationship. The scenes are both fierce and touching, playful one moment and violent the next. But in even the most intense moments, the author’s love and care for her boy, the object of her attention, is clearly seen.

Highly recommended.

– DOMME CHRONICLES –

Sharyn covers almost every aspect of the D/s relationship. There is a whole chapter simply on kissing that is so detailed and intense that it leaves you just as aroused and enthralled as one of the chapters on sex (of which there are many).

Every vignette is written in careful, loving detail; recounting thoughts, feelings and wants so that the reader is drawn deeper into the narrative and left gasping at the end.

– HOW TO FIND A DOMINANT WOMAN –

Well written with concise, down to earth advice. She scribes everything in an interesting, enjoyable, and non-stuffy way which I found appealing. It’s one of the few books which kept my attention so much so that I entirely read it in less than a day. I just didn’t want to put it down.

– HAPPY FEMDOM STORIES –

These are beautiful real-life stories that show how happy healthy Female Lead relationships really exist.

Each person’s journey is different in the lifestyle and it’s really awesome and beautiful to read these personal stories.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

Fern’s advice literally got me through my first few playtimes by helping me be organized, confident and adjusting my expectations.

– DOMME CHRONICLES –

I loved the book, which tapped into a lot of what I like to explore in my own writing — the themes of female dominance that is not tied to leather or vinyl catsuits and whips or sex dungeons (not that those can’t be fun!)… real portrayals of what it’s like for lovers in this dynamic.

– HOW TO FIND A DOMINANT WOMAN –

I’ve been an active participant in the BDSM and leather communities for over 4 years, and I’m telling you that, yes, this book is the real deal.

Ms. Ferns’ real-life experience in meeting and dating submissive men for over 20 years allows her to bring a plethora of insights (and a few gotchas that you might have missed) in your search for a D/s, F/m relationship.

– DOMME CHRONICLES –

Witty, smart, sexy & just plain hot. Her stories will suck you in and not let go. Highly recommended for those ‘in the know’ and for the curious.

This is a real jewel. Gritty and nasty, soft and sweet – it has it all. And the best part – this is real. No sad unrealistic porn stories but the real ones. Real hot achingly beautiful ones.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

A fantastic gem that manages to be practical as the dickens AND a quick, fun, sexy read.

Even players with some experience will probably find several useful ideas. I’ve bought three of Ferns’s books and have always been be very happy!

– HAPPY FEMDOM STORIES –

10/10. Would read again.

An amazing collection of stories featuring real life Dominants and Submissives. A must read for those who want to see the details of how femdom relationships begin!

– HOW TO HANDLE DISOBEDIENCE –

This book changed the relationship I had with my wife.

It provided the impetus required to stop my shit and play the game properly. Adopting Fern’s practices proved remarkably effective.

It provides a step-by-step approach to safely break out of an uncomfortable moment in order to progress the relationship.

– HOW TO FIND A DOMINANT WOMAN –

You would be a fool not to take this advice.

Sharyn Ferns writes beautifully and her advice is invaluable.

– HAPPY FEMDOM STORIES –

This collection shows the romance and love that has blossomed between a dominant woman and a submissive male. These are sensitive tales spoken from the viewpoint of both female and male, on how they met while accounting for their dominant and submissive natures. How they’ve weaved their kink into a viable tapestry that embraces both FemDom as well as vanilla considerations.

This important work deserves much exposure.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

I’m always on the lookout for more advice that may help me along further. While some aspects of this book weren’t totally new to me, other things were mentioned that I hadn’t thought about before and they were great.

I wish I’d found this a year ago when I was really getting started. I highly recommend it.

– DOMME CHRONICLES –

I just recently began reading your “Domme Chronicles” and I must write and tell you that I truly enjoy every word. The word pictures you paint are amazing and so totally erotic. I can only say “WOW”!

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

I can’t thank you enough for your guide. Your voice made me smile and made things click in my head. Handing me something practical & immediately usable & in a quick-read, then go-do-it format… made my day. This gives me a starting place, an outline, and a plan that I need to get me going & a place to go next when I bog down.

Just… thank you.

– HOW TO HANDLE DISOBEDIENCE –

This book brought A LOT of clarity and advice at a time I found tricky because I was dealing with a self-identified ‘stigma’.

Saved Me a literal fuck tonne of headaches.

Highly recommended <3.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

Great guide, breaks the first scene down into manageable chunks which was great for someone like me who runs away with themselves. Good tips, well written, spurs you on to consider everything thoroughly without becoming bogged down in minutiae.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

This is such a good book on how to plan a great BDSM scene.

All content, no fluff. This book gets straight to the point and takes you step by step into making a plan that you can actually use to create an amazing first scene to blow your sub’s mind, and give you the satisfaction that comes from experiencing it all coming together.

I can’t recommend this book highly enough.

– HOW TO FIND A DOMINANT WOMAN –

Great read for new beginners! Lots of wonderful advice. Definitely worth purchasing if you are a new male submissive and want a FLR.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

This book is a playbook for making a novice’s first scene amazing. If someone sent you to purchase this book because you are new to being in charge of a scene, they sent you to the right place.

Accessible, encouraging, simple, concise, while not preaching any particular “twue way.” This book distills 20 years of oft-shared pieces of advice into a useful format.

– DOMME CHRONICLES –

I read and am still continuously reading Domme Chronicles. It’s a wonderful book that gets my brain going it’s also a treasure trove of fern moves I steal for my own scenes. Thanks Ferns

– ON DOMME CHRONICLES –

Ferns has a gift for perverting vanilla. Simple acts like kissing, touching, bathing or being undressed become deeply kinky explorations.

She delights in the sweet spot between tenderness and cruelty. Many of the meditations in “Domme Chronicles” are sensual, wistful and romantic with just enough control applied by the female dominant to push the action into the realm of SM.

– HOW TO HANDLE DISOBEDIENCE –

Excellent structure, context, and graphics provides a smooth and easy to follow process beginning with the types of disobedience and includes building on the foundation of the relationship, all the way through to follow-up after resolving the disobedience.

I love the book’s emphasis on building and repairing the foundation of the relationship.

– HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING –

I received it just two days before I was going to dominate a big man of 6’2 whom until then has been my dom. I read the book and did all the things you suggested. Today we did it! And it went great and I felt amazing. I kept it short just to give him a taste of this and that and I didn’t change my own character either.