I’ve been an active participant in the BDSM and leather communities for over 4 years, and I’m telling you that, yes, this book is the real deal.
Ms. Ferns’ real-life experience in meeting and dating submissive men for over 20 years allows her to bring a plethora of insights (and a few gotchas that you might have missed) in your search for a D/s, F/m relationship.… Continue Reading
Well written with concise, down to earth advice. She scribes everything in an interesting, enjoyable, and non-stuffy way which I found appealing. It’s one of the few books which kept my attention so much so that I entirely read it in less than a day. I just didn’t want to put it down.… Continue Reading
Great guide, breaks the first scene down into manageable chunks which was great for someone like me who runs away with themselves. Good tips, well written, spurs you on to consider everything thoroughly without becoming bogged down in minutiae.… Continue Reading
A fantastic gem that manages to be practical as the dickens AND a quick, fun, sexy read.
Even players with some experience will probably find several useful ideas. I’ve bought three of Ferns’s books and have always been be very happy! … Continue Reading
I’m always on the lookout for more advice that may help me along further. While some aspects of this book weren’t totally new to me, other things were mentioned that I hadn’t thought about before and they were great.
I wish I’d found this a year ago when I was really getting started. I highly recommend it.… Continue Reading
This book is a playbook for making a novice’s first scene amazing. If someone sent you to purchase this book because you are new to being in charge of a scene, they sent you to the right place.
Accessible, encouraging, simple, concise, while not preaching any particular “twue way.” This book distills 20 years of oft-shared pieces of advice into a useful format.… Continue Reading
I received it just two days before I was going to dominate a big man of 6’2 whom until then has been my dom. I read the book and did all the things you suggested. Today we did it! And it went great and I felt amazing. I kept it short just to give him a taste of this and that and I didn’t change … Continue Reading