Hot.
If there were female dominants in these photos, in these poses, with this intense interplay, I would like them even more because, fuck… look at the submissives in these pictures, look at the interaction, look at their faces, the passion fairly screams out of these photos. I imagine the moments before and after these captured frames and it hits me just right.
This is fucking white hot. Guh.
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Edited to add that these images came from Fuck Yeah Male Submission! – it’s on my Blogs I Read list (though ‘read’ is a loose description…), why haven’t you looked yet?
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Hot to have that sinceritty of submission for yourself? Or hot to have constructed that scene and then have it play out in front of you?
Because that passion, that's a given, right?
So, why do you think that such passion – not to mention such well-toned men – are so rare in femdom porn?
It really is a bummer having to make do with pairings other than F/m in order to get any intensity.
Oh i wouldn’t know about that porn u r talking about Tom, as i find porn a stupid and utterly boring expression of sex. Ergo i don't look at it. But there r plenty of those well-toned men present in the world of femdom. Well….um….. not so much in those FLR and other mainstream areas of cors. U know, hard-bodies like that r not developed by males,
– spending time kneeling at the feet of their wife,
– doing laundry and dishes,
– writing lines.
– sentenced to corner time,
– discussing for hours/days their reason(s) for having said “NO” to their spouse, or
– listening to her explanation(s) why they never should have said “NO” to her in the first place
I'll come back to the comments, but in the meantime, this little piece appeared in my twitter feed:
Why porn that women like makes men uncomfortable
Ferns
Ferns I hear the words “porn that women like” and I am interested.
You like these images right here. That’s interesting. You are a naughty girl.
Sad to say it but they have nothing for me. And they make me uncomfortable.
Satan
I love these! I've always said I like gay porn more than any other because it's so animalistic and raw. I mean yes, they have their cheesey duos just like any porn. But gay porn is about the only one I can't do better in my own head. When men get to either side of that… that there in your pictures… well yes that's hot and it's often not portrayed in femdom porn, my opinion is that it threatens someone's masculinity to admit they can be manly and submissive. There's the blanket assumption that submissive men are doormats. Doormats are NOT sexy! Where in my reality, the submissive men I am attracted to and befriend are all the grunty manly sorts. I know very few doormats, for long. If porn is mostly male oriented, then that targeted to men by men seems more intense to me.
white heat… mmhmm
Ferns: “I imagine the moments before and after these captured frames …”
“Aaaaand … cut! Right, that's lunch everybody.”
Hmmm. That's not what you meant, is it?
Anonymous: “Hot to have that sinceritty of submission for yourself? Or hot to have constructed that scene and then have it play out in front of you?”
The passion, the intensity, the desire… that's what's hot.
“Because that passion, that's a given, right?”
You mean in porn (especially in femdom porn)? Um. No. You mean in real life? Yes! Yes please! Hell yes!
Ferns
Tom Allen: “So, why do you think that such passion – not to mention such well-toned men – are so rare in femdom porn?”
I always assume it's simply because it's made by men for other men, and it's cyclical (i.e. the more same same that sells, the more they will make of that same ilk). The fantasy stereotype is what sells and they want to eroticise the women as objects of desire, not the men. That article I linked to is interesting:
The straight male performer must be attractive enough to serve as a prop, but not so attractive that he becomes the object of desire… Men need to see a penis in straight porn (presumably to stand in for their own), but not one that is attached to a guy who might be threateningly attractive, not to mention plausibly appealing to the woman involved.
On a side note, I always wondered why men weren't totally put off, intimidated and made to feel inadequate by huge cocks in porn. I find that baffling.
Ferns
Peroxide: “It really is a bummer having to make do with pairings other than F/m in order to get any intensity.”
It *is* a bummer. I don't bang on about it, but when I DO find something I like, it's inevitably not F/m.
I have a folder called 'liked images', which is where I put photos that make me go 'oh yeah!'. Most are F/m, but they are also mostly really sweet, loving ones, or hot men in submissive poses vs ones of passionate impending violence and hotness between a woman and her boy. Not because I don't love those ones, but because I obviously rarely come across ones that fit the bill.
Ferns
Satan: “You are a naughty girl.”
I cannot tell a lie, you could well be right.
“Sad to say it but they have nothing for me. And they make me uncomfortable.”
You should not look then… go here instead (though personally, I find some of the images there much more disturbing)!
Ferns
Sweets: “I love these!”
Me too!
“I've always said I like gay porn more than any other because it's so animalistic and raw.”
Interestingly, I have seen the bottom in the second photo described as both a male and a female (on different sites).
In my mind M/f porn also beats F/m porn because he wants, he takes, he uses her for his pleasure, he comes.
In F/m porn, he wants, she gives, she does stuff for his pleasure, he comes… hoooollldd on…!!
“…my opinion is that it threatens someone's masculinity to admit they can be manly and submissive. There's the blanket assumption that submissive men are doormats.”
This assumes that they consider the man relevant at all, and I question that. I don't think they do. He is a thing upon which she acts in a cold and passionless way in her hot outfit while looking fabulous. I have absolutely no problem with the first part (“he is a thing upon which she acts”), but I DO have a problem with the second.
Give me a woman who gets off on the play, who *wants* him because he is so damn sexy, whose entire intent is to use him to get off, who gets fucking hot and bothered when he is whimpering or screaming, who thinks he is fucking irresistable when he recoils, when he is scared, give me fucking KISSING!! Give me a man who can bring his sexy, irresistable, beautiful thingness to life. Then… then, they might have something I would watch.
Ha! I started the last paragraph with “Give me a 'men in pain' video with a woman who…” and went to the site to see if I could at least find a hot sub male vid preview to reference, and saw the description: “Men In Pain is sissy boys tortured by sexy women in femdom bondage.” Ugh. Then went to 'divine bitches' to take a look and saw the entire top of my screen filled with images of naked women in typical porn poses. Double ugh. Of course all preview images are 'her being sexy'. I gave up then.
Ferns
Friz Q: “”Aaaaand … cut! Right, that's lunch everybody.””
Mmmmm… lunch… yummy yum yum…
Oh wait… you meant *actual* lunch?! Yeah, that's NOT what I meant…
Ferns
Dear Sharyn,
You just nailed something that has always bugged me about F/m as it is too often portrayed. My fantasy as a submissive is that my lady gets so hot making me submit to her desires that her desire rises and builds to boiling point where she wants me and just has to have me. Our play leads to kissing, passionate lusty kissing and hot, urgent must have it right now sex. We spend our passion together, all the erotic, naughty things we did
culminating in hot, hard, animalistic passion.
Afterwards we lie together, enjoying the aftermath, enjoying each other. Enjoying the feel of our touching naked bodies. The one time I’d consider smoking!
Dear Ferns,
I never laughed more.
These rides are magic.
Wish you were here,
Satan
I am a homoflexible femme switch. Ironically, I am submissive to my one male Dom/fiance. I am Dominant to many others, of many genders (though I tend to avoid biomales, for many reasons.)
I love gay male porn. I tend to find lesbian porn boring. And fake-seeming.
Have you seen this? https://fetlife.com/groups/5185/group_posts/1962955