Bambi Q&A

In my last post, I invited people to ask me questions about bambi… Thank you to everyone who did… fun!!

So here are all the secrets…

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Is Bambi the greatest?!?! <= Hmmm… bambi, is that you?!

He’s totally the greatest! Also, ask me again in 5 days… *bounce fidget*

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This Bambi fellow seems pretty fit and hot. He must be so awesome!! How are you handling the massive ego he must have?! <= It IS you!!!! *laugh*

*laugh* He is getting fitter and hotter AS WE SPEAK, and yes, he is awesome! He doesn’t have a massive ego at all. And if he shows hints of one, don’t worry, I will slap it out of him quick-smart.

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Yay! Are you going to meet him at the airport? Or is he going to have to make the trip from the airport to wherever you will be found by himself? If you meet him at the airport, are you going to have a sign that says “bambi,” or his actual name, or will he be expected to recognize you without a sign? I think a sign that says “bambi” would be great. Maybe with little hearts drawn on it, or at least one to dot the “i.”

Neophyte

Yes, I will be meeting him at the airport! And no, I’m not going to be carrying a sign (though your idea is really cute *laugh*). He has sent me about a gazillion photos of himself, I have sent him far fewer of me, but I’m confident that we will recognise each other.

I will be looking for ‘completely and utterly adorable’! I can easily recognise that.

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ohhhhh You said it was okay now, that’s what I was waiting for to see so now I can ask about bambi. ~gleams~

What is his reaction to you posting about him on the site? I know you have said he is shy at times which I am too. Does it embarrass him, make him beam with happiness, etc?

Also, reading about him I sometimes wonder if he is my long lost submissive male twin from another mother so can I poke him? Find out if he has been searching for his lesbian submissive twin haha Pokey pokety poke poke

Respectfully,
brattyboi

*smile* He loves it when I talk about him. It makes him all warm and fuzzy, plus he is an attention hoar! *laugh*. He has a little edge of nervousness about being misunderstood because he has no control over how I talk about him, and I completely understand that. I have a ‘duty of care’ here in that I am exposing him to the world: he is trusting me with that, and I take that seriously. It makes me all protective.

I asked him whether he was searching for his lesbian submissive twin. He said ‘no’ (but he could be keeping it a secret from me!).

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How are you feeling, about meeting Bambi? Are you nervous, excited, anxious? If any of those, what do you do to keep your composure? What do you do to help bring you back to your regular state of mind?

BTW, best of luck and I look forward to reading about your meeting! :D

I’m really excited about it! I’m restless and impatient and full of anticipatory hopefulness. At the same time, I’m trying to keep a part of my head aware of the possibility that there might be no chemistry between us without making it a big cloud of negativity. It’s a tricky balance.

*smile* And I don’t do anything to keep my composure or to get back to my regular state of mind, that seems a waste of perfectly good positive energy. I am fully enjoying all the feelings without reservation.

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You’ve mentioned this isn’t the first time you’ve gotten to know a boy online before meeting him face-to-face.

Of course, every situation and every potential boy is different, and you can’t predict the future. But, do you think being on your home turf — having the boy come to you — makes any difference? Does being in a familiar environment affect (or might it affect) your headspace, comfort level, confidence, expectations, etc? (any or all of those things!)

I have done both, and no, it makes no difference to any of those things.

Given the choice, if travel is involved I prefer to go to him because:

1. it’s fun to go somewhere new (holidays!) and
2. I very much enjoy being hosted and catered to (having him organise things, show me around, navigate, chauffeur, entertain me, take me out etc)

I think I understand the reason for your question (familiar environment = more control = more ‘me’), but it doesn’t really work that way for me. I like to swan around enjoying myself and my preference is to not be concerned with any of the detail (dahling!), so I guess I am more ‘me’ when I am being catered to.

“Organise my itinerary and bring me my chariot, boy…” *waves hand airily*, and etc.

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What can you tell us about Bambi that we don’t already know?

Hmmmm… he doesn’t like the smell of candles much.

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You’ve said he’s sent you pictures (and video) of his face. Has he sent you pictures (or video) of anything else?

Inquiring minds want to know!

Yes, lots of different ones! He’s done location tours for me in different places, action sequences, food photos, ‘stuff he’s looking at’, drawings… lots of things!

*squint* Or wait… are you asking me if he sent me cock shots?

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Do I get any credit for encouraging this? Just asking. You don’t have to roll your eyes so much….

M. Date

Pffffttt… No! You get a ‘Thanks for your encouragement’ and a little pat.

Thanks for your encouragement! *pat… smile*.

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Now that bambi is days (DAYS!!!) away, I’m curious to know how your feelings have changed since “I want to do things to you.” Back then it felt like there was hope and optimism with a side of doubt. How are these emotions dished out now? Are you still feeling the Mad Max landscape? And lastly, do you have your secret agent spy glasses and button cam all charged up so we can come to the airport and meet bambi with you?

PS And since bambi is such an attention hoar I’ll throw one his way, how is he feeling just days away from meeting you? And, and, and, has he picked out his I’m-going-to-meet-Ferns-and-she’s-going-to-do-naughty-naughty-things-to-me-but-only-after-we-make-out-in-the-airport-like-teenagers outfit yet?

“Now that bambi is days (DAYS!!!) away”

I KNOW!!! Eeekkk!!

“Back then it felt like there was hope and optimism with a side of doubt. How are these emotions dished out now?”

I think there is still hope and optimism with a side of doubt. The doubt can’t be addressed until we meet: online connections sometimes don’t translate into real life no matter what people feel remotely, so that’s a ‘wait and see’ kind of thing. The good thing is that that is my major concern. I really think that if we have a strong chemistry, we can sort out the rest because we genuinely have a mutual love-fest going on.

Are you still feeling the Mad Max landscape?

I feel a lot more ‘solid’ with him now in terms of understanding than I did then, and that makes a big difference to the ‘Mad Max landscape’ *smile*. By that I mean that although we do (and will) have misunderstandings due to various reasons (because that’s life), I don’t have any doubts about his intent and sincerity, or his desire to do what he can to make this work and to please me, and that allows me to filter his words and actions through a very positive lens (versus seeing obstacles on the path that don’t really exist).

And lastly, do you have your secret agent spy glasses and button cam all charged up so we can come to the airport and meet bambi with you?

*laugh* Yes! It’s called twitter. You can expect blow-by-blow updates there live, as it happens… Stay tuned!!

PS And since bambi is such an attention hoar I’ll throw one his way, how is he feeling just days away from meeting you? And, and, and, has he picked out his I’m-going-to-meet-Ferns-and-she’s-going-to-do-naughty-naughty-things-to-me-but-only-after-we-make-out-in-the-airport-like-teenagers outfit yet?

*smile* Since bambi is currently incommunicado (boo hoo!), I am going to answer with something he has said recently about how he will be when we meet at the airport (he can add further thoughts in the comments if he wants to):

“…lost confused bunny look in my eyes, stepping nervously, tired, and timid. And when we make eye contact I will look away and blush!”

*smile* Adorable!

As for his outfit, he is travelling super-light with a pair of pants, a couple of pairs of shorts, and 3 or 4 shirts. I’m betting on pants and a t-shirt…

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Are you nervous to meet Bambi?

*smile* I kind of skipped over this part of a multi-part ‘feelings’ question a bit above, so either you knew I did that in some freaky-psychic way, or you just wanted to be SURE I answered it *laugh*.

So to answer: Yes and no… ha!

I think I will absolutely have anticipatory-jittery-excitement nervousness leading up to the meeting. And when I am at the airport gate waiting for him to come out of immigration, I can imagine literally pacing around and going “COME OOONNNN!!!”

As for the anxious-fearful kind of nervous, I don’t expect to feel that. I think I probably would if I was worried about impressing him with my super-awesomeness or living up to some expectations, but I’m not. He will like me. And I will like him. I know this already.

The worst outcome is going to be that there is no chemistry, and I AM concerned about that, but it doesn’t make me nervous. If that’s the case, then it is what it is and can’t be helped.

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Thanks so much for your questions, everyone! I am thinking of little else at the moment, so this was a fun way to bring some focus to some of those thoughts.