Why a personal trainer is just like a pro-Domme

You give the personal trainer money for their expertise.
You give a pro-Domme money for their expertise.

You tell the personal trainer what your goals are, and expect them to get you there.
You tell the pro-Domme what your goals are, and expect them to get you there.

If you have had a previous session, the personal trainer asks how it was, what you liked/didn’t like.
If you have had a previous session, the pro-Domme asks how it was, what you liked/didn’t like.

The personal trainer gives you an outline of what they are going to do with you in the upcoming session.
The pro-Domme gives you an outline of what they are going to do with you in the upcoming session.

You negotiate, so if the personal trainer says they want to do X and you would rather do Y, you tell them.
You negotiate, so if the pro-Domme says they want to do X and you would rather do Y, you tell them.

If you have any injuries or specific problems, you tell your personal trainer about them.
If you have any injuries or specific problems, you tell your pro-Domme about them.

When the session starts, you do what the personal trainer tells you to do.
When the session starts, you do what the pro-Domme tells you to do.

The personal trainer may hurt and push you and you may swear at them, but you still do it.
The pro-Domme may hurt and push you and you may swear at them, but you still do it.

The session with the personal trainer may be tough, but you do your best to do what they say.
The session with the pro-Domme may be tough, but you do your best to do what they say.

Sometimes the personal trainer is really mean to you and you hate them.
Sometimes the pro-Domme is really mean to you and you hate them.

When the session is over, you thank your personal trainer, even though they were brutal with you.
When the session is over, you thank your pro-Domme, even though they were brutal with you.

When you leave a personal training session, you can hardly walk straight.
When you leave a pro-Domme session, you can hardly walk straight.

After the session with the personal trainer, you will probably want another one.
After the session with the pro-Domme, you will probably want another one.

I think my personal trainer is really a pro-Domme disguised as a scruffy ex-footballer with huge thighs.