I don’t pay attention to the sounds I make when I am on the receiving end of pleasure. If I am paying attention to the noise I make, my focus is in the wrong place.
Mostly, I am inarticulately vocal. By that I mean that I don’t talk much, but I make sounds of pleasure… moans, groans, breathy sighs, maybe whimpers. They mostly mean some version of ‘more of that’ or ‘yes, there’ or ‘please, that’ or ‘soo good!’.
If I need to direct him, I prefer touch over voice. I will move his head to get his mouth where I like it, shove his body into a position I want, reposition him by pushing against him, or I will shift my body in relation to his.
Sometimes I do give verbal instructions; they are always short and specific.
“Two fingers inside me…”
“Hold out your tongue…”
“No, keep still…”
And rarely, I might say his name, but I have to be very comfortable with him to be able to come out of wherever I am and be cognisant enough to do that.
I’m very familiar with one sex noise I make that is entirely predictable, though.
It’s the sound that comes out of my mouth when I reach the point where I am tipped over into orgasm.
It’s that moment where I’m not quite there yet, but I know if he keeps doing that thing, that exact thing that he is doing right now, that thing that he is doing exactly right, if he just keeps doing THAT, I’m going to come.
My voice changes timbre when I hit that point, it drops a register, and it feels like a confirmation sound, an acknowledgement. It’s involuntary and it goes together with the tipping point always. It’s a deeper ‘ohh ohh ohh’ that signals the change from ‘mmmm… nice’ to ‘oh yes, oh holy fuck…’ It means I am no longer reaching to come, I’m at the point of no return and I’m sliding inevitably towards it.
I wonder what it feels like to my submissive when I make that sound, when he knows he has me *right there*. I suspect it becomes a pretty powerful mental and emotional symbol for where he has taken me. I like that thought.
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“If I need to direct him, I prefer touch over voice. I will move his head to get his mouth where I like it, shove his body into a position I want, reposition him by pushing against him, or I will shift my body in relation to his.”
That is hotter than words can express! I love to hear a woman but for her to take me and move me where she wants, now that..ooohhh yes that please! *chuckles*
“I wonder what it feels like to my submissive when I make that sound, when he knows he has me *right there*. I suspect it becomes a pretty powerful mental and emotional symbol for where he has taken me. I like that thought.”
I cannot speak of your submissive but I sure can speak of a woman who absolutely loves to watch and listen to when I have taken my partner to that moment. When I know by her reactions, by her sounds or her body, that I have taken her to that beautiful place it completely fucking unravels me. Emotionally, it is a mix of jumping with joy to completely melting inside. My mental goes that way too except it also does the “GRRRR I want to fuck everything of you, want to crawl inside you and devour you, and become a part of you. I want you NOW! MORE give me MORE PLEASE!”…okay I need to stop now! whew! lol
There is NOTHING more beautiful than when a woman comes for me and nothing more amazing then knowing *I* am the one who took her there.
HOT Post!!!!! I really need to stop reading your blog first thing in the morning..cold shower..laters *chuckles*
Respectfully,
mysticlez
*smile* I’m glad you could relate, and thank you for sharing. It’s fun (and hot!) to hear how others feel and react in those moments.
Ferns
You’re just a hottie Ferns, leading us on like that.
Now I want to hear that tipping-over “oh oh ohhhh” on soundcloud.com so I can analyze it! Just for science, you know.
And you know how much you love science – so you absolutely *have* to share!
“And you know how much you love science – so you absolutely *have* to share!”
If by ‘*have* to share!’, you mean ‘don’t have to share at all!’, I’m right there with you!! *laugh*
This is the closest I will ever put up in public!
Ferns
I love this post, it’s great to see how aware is people on those moments. And it’s quite hot to read it as well :)
For myself, I am not very noisy, but i do moan regularly and sometimes prefer to talk, use some rude language or so.
I am kind of fascinated by how different people express themselves during sex. I mean there is everything from completely silent to talktalktalking. Endless variety!
Ferns
I meant to comment on this when I originally read it – then I saved it to do so later, and stumbled back across it a month later! Loved this post, and really related to what you had to say. Sounds and words, direction and inarticulation. Yum.
xx Dee
*smile* Thanks for coming back to it!!
And yes to all of those: yum!
Ferns
“I wonder what it feels like to my submissive when I make that sound, when he knows he has me *right there*.”
I can say that for me it is an amazing sound and feeling, I live for that moment. Something about being able to provide that for someone is truly special to me. Makes me want the moment to last and last.
Very hot post, too, by the way, smile.
greg
“Makes me want the moment to last and last.”
That’s what tease and denial is for *laugh* (don’t try this at home with your dominant…!).
“Very hot post, too, by the way, smile.”
Thanks!
Ferns