Happy femdom story – TheDV & TheDVsFox

I’m so delighted to share another wonderful story from a happy femdom couple who found each other on Collarme.com (now Collarspace) some 7 years ago and never looked back. Heartwarming and lovely and happily-ever-after-ish *happy sigh*.

Author: TheDV

I moved to Tennessee in January of 2007 to be closer to my slave a the time, Angel. He and I had a rocky relationship face to face that did not translate well from what we had online. Fox had started college as a freshman and was living away from home in the dorms. He decided to start his search since he was able to do so privately. He had joined collarme, and submitted a photo. I contacted him before it had even been approved. I was just saying hello since he had popped up on my new users list and he was in my area. I wasn’t looking for anything, because even though the relationship with Angel was open, it was having problems. He wasn’t really looking either, having decided he didn’t want a serious girlfriend until he finished his school year. We chatted for hours over CM, and then moved to yahoo IMs.

The next day circumstances aligned to have us both off at the same time. He had never been to Nashville, but decided to come in on a whim. A whim, of course, that was totally and completely out of character for him. The plan was to meet at my place and then I would drive us to the nearby park to take photos for an online project. He pulled into the complex and saw me walking to throw out trash. Supposedly he thought to himself that he really wanted to meet that woman, and he was going to ask me if I knew her. He didn’t know I was her at this point having never seen my face.

He was so shocked that it was me, and so knocked off kilter by being attracted that he wouldn’t even walk next to me when we were in the park. He was SUPER shy, but conversation picked up quickly. When it started getting dark, I invited him back to my place for dinner. I cooked, and we enjoyed even more time together. Finally, I decided to kiss him. It was the first time he had ever kissed anyone, ever. His sister called his cell right in the middle of it, and he didn’t want them to suspect he was away from home, so he had to answer it.

He spent the night, because time got away from us and it was way too late for him to drive home. He had class in the morning, so he stayed and drove back early. He took the 45 minute drive to and from campus every day that week to see me. I surprised him with a collar on day 3, I was already sure I wanted to keep him. He had 2 hard limits: No spitting, and no sex before marriage. I agreed though the no sex was difficult for me.

Fast forward a few months. Fox was staying the night, and he turns to me and says ‘I don’t think I want you to respect my limits.” That was the first time we had sex. I proposed the next month.

I was the maid of honor at my best friend’s wedding, and on VERY short notice. Fox and I drove up to New York for it. Fox was navigator. One night, I turned to him and said “I have something to ask you.” As a joke, his response was “If you’re asking me to marry you, the answer is yes.” I said “No, what street do we turn on?”

The next night at the wedding, I asked my best friend if she would be insulted if I asked him to marry me that night. I didn’t want to steal her thunder of course. Not only did she not mind, but she arranged a spotlight dance for us to do it. Fox had no idea, but she told everyone else at the wedding.

“Everything I Do, I Do it For you” came on, which was our song and the DJ called us out to the floor. While we were dancing, I asked him if the answer was still yes. He cried, then the bride cried, then everyone applauded when he said yes and then joined us on the floor. I beat him to the punch, he was going to ask me after the wedding. He still wears his engagement ring around his neck.

We got married in the park, with a mix of family and kink friends in attendance. We reversed our vows, so I said ‘love, honor, and cherish’, and he said ‘love, honor’ and obey’. No one was surprised, even our vanilla family. That was the 2 year anniversary of his collaring, on October 19, 2009.

We are going on 7 years and they have been the best years of my life.

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This post is part of an ongoing project to share happy, positive femdom relationship stories.  If you have a story and are willing to share it, I’d love to host it here. Please email it to me (ferns AT domme-chronicles DOT com).