From ‘adventures in femdom dating’ and related to using the cutie-pie’s cock for the sex toy review I mentioned earlier, here are some snippets of the conversation in which we talked about it, how I explained it to him, checked to see if he had any issues with what I had in mind, and agreed the activities that might be on the table.
I’m intending for it to be a very low key science experiment. You are the guinea pig.
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I don’t know how the toy will work either, but if it’s just ‘bbbbbzzzzzzzztttt… [a minute later] holy fuck!’ and your refractory period is super long, that’s a short experiment :)
I was thinking two [orgasms]. The first just ‘ok let’s see if/how this thing works’ (I get the impression from reviews that it might just feel super weird) and the second ‘okay, let’s see what ELSE this thing can do and how it feels’ :)
The other option is just to edge with it and see how it feels in different circumstances with different settings etc, which would be fine also
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Would you be okay with an audio recording? (I don’t think I can get a good quality recording out of it because logistics, but I might like to give it a go)
Might be hot if it works
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Here’s a broad outline of things that are in my head (not ‘things I will do’, but ‘things I might want’). Let me know if any are a concern:
- You naked, me not
- Kneeling (you :))
- Body touching (yours), cock touching (also yours :P)
- Kissing
- Wrist cuffs (behind your back, maybe to the bed)
- Blindfold
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You will have safe words (yellow: there’s an issue, can we pause and talk about it, and red: stop everything right now), but since this is all about guinea-pigging, there’s no risk of me misunderstanding a simple statement like ‘that feels uncomfortable’ or ‘no more’ etc.
He’s excited about all of it, so I’m happy about that. He asked if I’d be willing to take some photos of him, which you might see here if they turn out and he’s okay with me sharing them.
We haven’t nailed down a time yet. Probably next week.
Fun :).
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This all sounds so delicious! I am glad you found your guinea pig.
*fans self* Your plans sound amazing. Here’s to hoping he’s an eager boy and consents to letting you share photos and audio.
Have fun with the stunt cock!
Thank you: It should be fun :).
Ferns
The mention of an audio recording, capturned my attention. The melding of sound, sight, tactile and smell is so rewarding. Well to my hedonistic nature.
Oh, and THE EDGE, standing or kneeling at the edge of “that Abyssal, unkown…” toes or some other body part suspended above the unknown… ahhh of to take a cold shower!
The audio recording will be a challenge, not least because trying to do it would restrict activity, but also because I don’t want him to ham it up for the mic. We will see how it works out :).
Ferns
I’m enjoying the “How to Negotiate” Series. It’s lije the BDSM for Dummies. :)
Totally like that :P. Glad you’re enjoying it (though ‘series’ seems more future-hopeful than actual at this point :)).
Ferns
Cant wait :-)
Patience is a virtue. Apparently.
Ferns
So….. two posts in four days huh?
And both kind of…..
Not that you’re in any way….
*laugh* Technically it was three… Oh wait, you mean about him?
What are you trying to say?! Spill!
Ferns
I’m just jealous that’s all.
Anyway your commitment to scientific experiments is laudable. Does he get a mention if you win a Nobel prize or something or will you totally take all the glory!
Ahh, I see now Green Eyes :).
I will 100% take all the glory. I mean, guinea pigs don’t get awards, even if they are super cute!
Ferns
What Anonymous said. ;-)
I have no idea what you and Anonymous’ collective point is, so you two need to get together and find some more words :P.
Ferns
Of course, I know more than you do, but my guess is that Anonymous and Luke are optimistic regarding the recent evolution, and wish you the best of luck. Like most of us, Luke and Anonymous are probably suckers for happy stories, whether there are good reasons to expect anything of the sort, or not.
Thank you for acting as my interpreter, Anonymous II :).
I, too, am a sucker for happy stories (as my two volumes (TWO!) of Happy Femdom Stories attest :)), but I am also a truth-seer and dream-killer :).
Ferns
“I don’t know how the toy will work either, but if it’s just ‘bbbbbzzzzzzzztttt… [a minute later] holy fuck!’”
We call that a taser here Ferns, just sayin’
Coug
Huh. That explains a lot!
No wonder I had trouble finding someone to test it with me…
Ferns
The only problem for me is that i live on the other side of the world, otherwise you would have tested it straight away ;-)
tiptease
:DD
We’ve got one, Cougs. GET THE CATTLE PROD!!
Ferns
just wanted to express my unbelieve that you have trouble finding someone to test it..
Bahahaha… you do realise Cougs and I were joking about a taser, and not the sex toy right? :P
Ferns
Ofcourse Ferns, blushes and walks away, haha
LOL
Ferns
Who’s joking?
Coug
I know you never joke about tasers. Or cattle prods!
Ferns